Good morning, everyone! Here's another one from the mailbag:
You have a nanny that has worked with you for 3 years and has been like a second mother to your children. You like to think that you treat her as part of your family (or better!) You rarely deny any request that she makes, and do your best to make her feel welcome in your home. What's more, you invite her (and her family) to your kids' birthday parties and such. You even give her gifts on Mother's Day and give her daughter gifts at Christmas. She recently got engaged. You were very excited for her and helped her find some wedding planning resources. Heck, you even helped her find the location for her engagement party, which is...this weekend. The party is in 3 days and you have YET to receive an invitation. It occurs to you that you may not be invited! You feel surprised and just a little hurt. Maybe you weren't as close as you had thought.
What would YOU do?